It's an early christmas here at Seasons Park. The timing fits us well so I signed the kids up for the event. Ever since we decided to do homeschooling, I have been enthusiastic and forthcoming with all sorts of community events and activities. I must admit, it takes effort for me because by nature, I'm an introvert with social phobia. I very much rather to be left alone in the safety of my home. However, I love my kids too much to subject them to my kind of solitude and lifestyle.
Papa took Sophie to the function room while I waited for Alfee to wake up from his nap. That little man is having such a hard time with his sensory issues that I almost didn't want to put him through the overstimulating celebration. Yet how could I deprive him? It's a daily struggle for me to ensure he's functioning right by balancing his needs with the right sensory diet.
I doubt Alfee could fully understand what was going on, but he sat there with Sophie nevertheless quite obediently. I was noticeably worried, of course, I could only hope that Sophie would keep an eye on him as they played 'passing parcel'. I don't think anyone can empathise with me and frankly, I have stopped trying to seek understanding as well. It's hard for Alfee to and it's hard for me.
After the game, the group broke up for food, balloon sculpturing and face painting. Sophie was quick to queue for the balloons but Alfee was too impatient to stay in a line. Thus, I ushered him to the face painting queue which was short. He was quite agreeable. He even discussed with the artist what he wanted and got a red car painted on his face.
Sophie also went for face painting, she was very patient and waited for her turn. After a long discussion with the artist, she got a princess painted on her face. Although she wasn't very happy with it, she went away quite graciously. She even waited in line for the second time to get another painting on her hand done. This time, she was very specific - pink and tiara. I suppose you can't go wrong with that.
There was a magic show when the group was once again gathered. It was quite entertaining and the kids were mesmerised by the magician's charisma and tricks.
Before the event ended, the children played another simple game. I wasn't sure what it was because i was all focused on Alfee. He was starting to do his usual 'kungfu' stuff and losing focus. I had to intervene a few times, removing him from the crowd in attempt to calm him down. Of course, he went all hyper again the moment I brought him back.
In fact, I was so preoccupied with Alfee that I got quite irritated when the organisers insisted the children stand together for photo taking. I was almost going to pull my kids out when I saw the reason why there was a need to take photo so hastily. Even then, it wasn't a pleasant experience to witness such insincere display of publicity.
All in all, the kids did enjoy themselves and I guess that's all it matters. I just wanted them to have a social life outside school and our family, especially Sophie. She has finally found friends in our estate and I hope she can continue to build lasting relationships with other children.
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