Tuesday, 18 August 2009

Second In Line

Mama's good childhood friend is expecting her second daughter due this coming December. We spoke on the telephone and she asked me if I was planning for No. 2. I was quick to say "NO" but I wonder if I could live with making Sophie "the only child". Sure I would be even more stressed out than ever and I can most definitely kiss my career bye-bye for the next decade... yet the thought lingers. Despite the ordeal I went through, I still entertain the possibility of going through it again. Why? Am I masochistic? Or simply insane?

3 comments:

  1. Last time i also tot of having just 1. But nw that i have 2, i have no regrets (thou its more tiring the 2nd time). XC used to ask children to play with her at e playgrd. And always wants ppl to play with her. We do play with her but itd diff when a kid plays with her.

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  2. it's good idea to have at least 2...I also want to have another one but eversince my last miscaariage, I am just a little phobia....and my hb is happy to have just 1 :) so let heaven decides lah...haaa...but if you really plan, better have it when you are young ...don't wait too long ...

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  3. ya, the longer you wait the less energy you'll have. If you don't have no. 2 now, I think 5 years down the line, you might regret and by then, second pregnancy might be a little difficult.

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